Avoid These 5 Common Wedding Etiquette Blunders
Let’s face it—whether you’re planning your own wedding or attending as a guest, the world of wedding etiquette can feel a bit like a minefield. From invitations to dress codes, a few mistakes are easy to make but equally easy to sidestep with a bit of know-how. If you want a celebration that runs smoothly and feels comfortable for everyone, here’s what you’ll want to keep in mind.
1. Forgetting to RSVP (Or Replying Too Late)
We’ve all been guilty of setting aside an invitation to deal with later, but when it comes to weddings, a tardy response can really throw a spanner in the works for the couple. Venues and caterers need numbers well in advance, and couples may be finalising seating plans or even splurging on bridesmaid dresses and table settings.
It’s a matter of courtesy—reply as soon as you’re able, and if you genuinely can’t make it, let the couple know swiftly.
2. Bringing Surprise Plus-Ones
It’s tempting to bring your partner or a friend along, but unless the invitation says plus-one, it’s best not to assume. Wedding budgets and seating arrangements in the UK are typically tight, so unannounced additions can make things tricky.
If the invite says just your name, stick to it. If you’re unsure, send a polite message to check—never simply show up with company.
3. Wearing White (Unless You’re the Bride)
This one’s timeless, yet it always pops up: unless you’re the one walking down the aisle, leave the white dress at home. British weddings still hold to the tradition that white (and sometimes ivory or cream) is reserved for the bride.
Instead, opt for one of the season’s trending hues—dusty sage, blush, lavender—especially if you’re a bridesmaid.
4. Oversharing on Social Media Before the Couple Does
Snapping a few photos at the reception is par for the course, but be wary of posting before the newlyweds have had their moment. Some couples prefer to share their own news first. If in doubt, follow any guidance on invitations or just ask.
Respecting privacy is key, and tagging the couple in every photo before they’ve had a chance to post isn’t quite the done thing.
5. Getting Too Hands-On with the Ceremony
Whether it’s offering impromptu speeches, rearranging table decorations, or making announcements, steer clear unless you’re asked. British weddings often have a clear schedule and dedicated roles—from bridesmaids and ushers to parents of the couple.
If you’re keen to help, offer in advance or ask the wedding planner on the day what you can do.
Final Thoughts
Weddings are big occasions with plenty of tradition, but common sense and a bit of British courtesy go a long way. Avoid these slip-ups and you’ll help the day unfold beautifully, whether you’re the bride, groom, bridesmaid, or simply a happy guest.
If you’re planning your own celebration and looking for bridesmaid dresses that tick all the right boxes for etiquette and style, have a browse through our collection—there’s something for every taste and every bridal party.
